For an offshore subclass 309 application, a couple living apart should explain the relationship as a timeline and support it with different kinds of evidence. The Department asks about the relationship history, time spent apart, shared finances, living arrangements, social recognition and commitment. Distance between Australia and Dubai, Doha, Riyadh or another GCC city is a circumstance to explain, not a substitute for evidence.
What should a long-distance relationship timeline include?
Write down how and when you met, how the relationship developed, when you became committed, significant visits or events, periods apart and plans for the future. Add dates and locations, then compare the timeline with passport stamps, flight records, messages, marriage documents and any shared financial or household records.
If one partner lives in the GCC for work while the other is in Australia, explain why you live separately, how you maintain the relationship and what arrangements you have made. Avoid generic statements that simply say you are in love.
How do the four evidence areas work?
- Financial: joint accounts, shared bills, transfers or expenses can show how you manage money together.
- Household: leases, living arrangements, shared responsibilities or mail can explain domestic life.
- Social: travel, invitations, family knowledge and statements from people who know the relationship can show how others recognise it.
- Commitment: communication while apart, knowledge of each other's background, plans and significant decisions can support the long-term story.
Use evidence that exists in your real relationship. A couple does not need to manufacture a joint account or create documents after the fact. Explain what is not available and use other relevant evidence.
How can couples make the application easier to understand?
- Label evidence with the date, people involved and what it shows.
- Use a short explanation for long gaps or unusual travel patterns.
- Keep the marriage and identity records consistent across both partners.
- Include current relationship evidence if the application remains in process; Home Affairs asks partner applicants to update evidence through ImmiAccount.
- Follow the exact checklist for the 309 and any dependent applicants.
Organize evidence around the relationship, not just the distance
The Department looks at the relationship as a whole, including financial aspects, the household, social recognition and the partners’ commitment. Couples who live in different countries can explain why they are apart and how they maintain the relationship. Useful records may include travel history, dated communication samples, shared expenses, plans made together and statements from people who know the couple. Choose a representative sample across the relationship rather than uploading a large undated message dump. If one partner lives in the UAE and the other in Australia, keep travel dates and work leave consistent with passports and employment records. Translate relevant Arabic records properly. Evidence should be genuine and should not be created or edited to make the relationship appear longer or more formal than it is.
Frequently asked questions
Does living apart automatically prevent a subclass 309 visa?
No. The Department asks applicants to describe time apart and provide evidence of the relationship. The circumstances and evidence are assessed against the visa criteria.
Do we need a joint bank account?
The Department lists joint financial records as examples, but no one document proves a relationship by itself. Use evidence that accurately reflects how you manage your life together.
Can a family member in the UAE complete Form 888?
The Department's Form 888 is for a supporting statement by an eligible witness who knows the couple and can describe the relationship. Follow the current form instructions and include the required identity evidence.
The 309 is an offshore visa and has detailed criteria. Confirm the current Home Affairs checklist before lodging.